Question:
I'm a 17 year old meal.
I normnly go out clubbin on fridays,saturdays and sundays.
When i'm with a girl i find that i can't get a hard penis, when i rub it ,it
doesn't get hard, this is after i've had a few beers, one or two.
I can't even get an erection.
I also noticed that this feeling happens when i am slightly nervious.
Don't tell me that i should cut down on the drink as i'm not raeally
drinking that much. plus i need drink to give me confidence and to get in
the party sirit.
Would smoking weed b better for me? i'hve never smoke weed b4 so ..
tis it better to have a wank b4 i go out so i dont go out wiff a loaded gun.
would this make me feel mur relaxed or will this make it harder to get
turned on. any help please
Answer:
First, everyone reacts different to alcohol. Maybe a teaspoon of cough
syrup would do this to you. You never know, maybe you should try NOT
drinking for ONE weekend and see if it helps. A large part of your erectile
dysfunction is probably the fact that you're just nervous. Now here's where
I bitch you out. You said that you need liquor to get up the courage to
speak to women. You go up, make small talk, try to get a number, and if she says no, then who
cares because she's not the only woman available.
Here's another section where I bitch you out. Also, it sounds like
you're going to these clubs and picking up chicks for the sole purpose of
sex. If that's the case, then I hope your dick never gets hard again
because you're doing nothing but proliferating the spread of
god-only-knows-what-diseases.
Here's another pile of stupidity that you've graced us with. Smoking
weed? What's the point? Alcohol and weed have the same basic physiological
effects. Alcohol causes "whiskey dick" and weed causes "weed dick."
Studies show that marijuana causes erectile dysfuntion more than alcohol, so
basically, if you decided to start smokin'-up then don't plan on doing much
sexually.
Going out with a "loaded gun" in your case would probably be better
since you can't get it up. At the age of 17, you should be "pitchin' a
tent" around every corner. It's not going to matter if you masturbate
before going out or not. Personally, I think that little rumor is complete
bullshit because the male "post ejaculatory recovery time" would have been
over by the time you get to your date or club. So, basically, your
physiological and hormonal levels will be restored (usually within a half an
hour). If you're different and it does make you more relaxed, then it might
be more difficult to achieve an erection.
So, in conclusion, my advice is this... Quit drinking because you have
nothing to be afraid of encountering women... Don't be nervous because "no"
isn't the end of the world... Don't smoke weed, but not for the sexual side
effects, but because smoking weed is pointless and stupid... And finally,
try masturbating before going out one night, but I really don't think it
makes a difference.
